Living in Reality
Reality is about you everywhere you go. When you try to escape reality, you only hinder yourself from growing. Your qualities within are hindered as well, since you will find it hard to develop new skills, new ideas which would help you to grow.
In this world, we are surrounded by poverty, crime, poor conditions, war, hate and so much more negativity. These elements of life combine to pull you down every single day just watch the news it’s a combination from everything I mentioned so far and people watch it everyday.
It is up to you to defeat these ongoing battles and obstacles that get in your way. The way you do this is to face reality head on.
It is ok to fantasize about good things in fact you should think about good and amazing things everyday, every minute, every second feed yourself with positive information think about dreams and goals you want to achieve because that’s what keeps you moving.
But keep in mind it is not ok to sit all day dreaming about things you will never accomplish, you have to take action towards your goals and dreams NOW or it will be a dream forever. If you have realistic dreams, you will set realistic goals that lead you to success regardless of the condition around you.
How it works:
Each day when you wake up, plan to do something different. Plan to try something new even if you are scared of it. For example if you live each day eating junk food, plan to eat healthy food for the day. Each day you wake up plan to eat healthier. As you learn new habits, you will see a difference in your health.
You have a wide array of options. In addition, most of us have the right to make our own choices. Make your choices good. Each day you wake up think about the consequences of your decisions to see if it is worth a go.
If you see that the consequences will hinder you, take a step back and review your situation further. You can reach for the moon and find new stars by brainstorming your mind.
In addition, you can use helpful tools such as reading books from successful people or people you find inspiring to get new ideas. The steps you take to open new doors, is the next step to improving your personal life.
Are you in a relationship that seems to go nowhere? Step back and review your situation. What can you do to make your relationship better? Is your mate stubborn? Can you do something different to lighten her behaviors?
Conduct is a great role model that inspires others to change. In addition, you can open the line of communication. Discuss issues with your mate when the mood is right.
Try to avoid arguing. Pay attention to your mate and allow him or her to speak their mind. If you leave the doors to communication open, it will help you and your mate grow.
Do you spend more time at work than you should?
If you have a family, kids included and work a 12 hour shift, you should re-consider your goals. If you are not spending quality time with your family, in time your family will drift apart.
If possible, reconsider your career. Is there another job you can take on that gives you the same benefits as your current job? You have many job opportunities available.
The best thing you could do is create your own business in such a situation find out what you’re passionate about what interests you and try to build a business around it, read books from people who did the same and copy what they did.
You have many choices in this day and age, so spread your wings to find your options. And take action never stop and you’ll see the progress, your life will become better and the most important thing is YOU will become better.